One year ago, I broke up with my girlfriend and was out of job.

One year later, I'm dating with several candidate girls, while attending interviews of different companies.

Lift is tough and boring one year ago since I had no choice. Lift is not much better now when I have couple of choices on hand.

Among girls, the one could be tall/short, pretty/ugly, good-tempered/bad-tempered.

These diversities apply to jobs as well: job inside/outside Beijing, job of pure development/mix with management, well paid/not-so-well paid.

Unless you've had make all choices for girl and job, you could not enjoy your life.

However, it's good to have choices.